然后，你用了“如果”這個代表假設(shè)的詞。那么，沒有“如果”會怎么樣呢？你心里大概覺得也能過得去吧。

接下來，你用了“保住”這個詞。“保住”是一個相當(dāng)被動的詞，這表明你根本就沒有主動進(jìn)攻的心態(tài)。

最后，你問大家有信心嗎？我想你得不到很正面的回應(yīng)。連你自己都沒有信心，可想而知大家的信心會怎樣？

這就是一種當(dāng)下的自我洞察。你覺得自己是在做一個正面的激勵，但實(shí)際上呢？很顯然，自己內(nèi)心沒有信心的時(shí)候，很多話雖然說了，但也不一定能夠達(dá)到鼓舞別人的效果。

只有洞察自己當(dāng)下的行為和語言，才能立刻發(fā)現(xiàn)問題所在并做及時(shí)的調(diào)整，以達(dá)到更好的效果。

傾聽內(nèi)心的聲音

首先，我想給大家介紹一篇英語文章，它是我讀過的、對內(nèi)心最優(yōu)美的詮釋。

Very much，ever since you were brought into this world. When you couldn't open your mouth till the first two years on planet earth，inner voice is the one through which you interpreted and understood things.

Inner voice is the voice mouth of the subconscious mind.The subconscious mind is always acting as a secondary reflector of thoughts and ideas in the body. It justifies and rationalizes what is right and what is wrong. When we go aganist what the inner voice says，we get a guilty conscious and are bothered by it throughout our lives.

At times when we are feeling low or those unforgettable moments when we are let down,we seem to need some kind of emotional or mental support. We usually speak to our closest pal or our dearest family member during times of distress to ease the burden. At such times we get over the initial drizzle of emotional anxiety and mental restlessness，because of the pepping up by our empathic listener. We suddenly feel rejuvenated because our inner voice alerts us to get on with things and leave the things of past on the memory books of our brain.

The inner voice is always right most of the times because it knows us better than others and probably even ourselves. It is the dare devil child of the intuitions which we have been having since childhood. It's good to go by intuitions most of the tims because its the response provided due to the synchronism between our mental and physical being.